Most guys desperately want a girlfriend, but I personally think they are crazy. I mean, it’s OK to date and even have women you date on a consistent basis. That is actually a great idea.
To show you how obsessed guys are with getting a girlfriend, there are actually gurus out there who sell advice to guys on how to get a girlfriend.
I actually found http://www.trinimedia.com which talks about some of the gurus that can help you get a girlfriend. If you really think it’s a good idea to get a girlfriend, more power to you, but for a single guy like me, it is actually scary.
Here is the guy I mentioned, Christian Hudson:
Why would I pay someone to help me get a girlfriend. That is the last thing I want! I mean, it’s OK to date and even have women you date on a consistent basis. That is actually a great idea.
But having a girlfriend? That is crazy talk, and let me explain why.
First off, what does it get you? You certainly won’t get more ‘action’. Once she is comfortable as your girlfriend, she will actually work less to make you happy. If a girl is still not sure where she stands with you, she will work that much harder to make you happy. That is common sense.
Second, you won’t be able to hang out, date or even fool around with other women. Why the heck would you willingly sign up for that nonsense? Who in their right mind doesn’t want choices and abundance in their dating life?
In face, this article shows that middle aged men are happier than their female counterparts: http://www.telegraph.co.uk. Why mess that up?
Lastly, having a girlfriend means you have to get permission to do things. I mean, as an adult man, why would anyone want to have to ask someone for permission before doing something. Your buddies are going to Vegas, and before you can join them you have to ask the ‘boss’ if she is OK with you going? Even if she say’s yes, she is going to be checking in on you and making you feel guilty for having fun.
Skip that noise fellas.
Stay single. Girlfriends are for the birds.