I’ve said it before, and I will say it again right now. If you are looking to actually get a girlfriend, then this video about the girlfriend activation system will help you:
Now as you know, I think getting a girlfriend is literally the worst thing a guy could do in today’s world. I mean, there are so many single girls who just want casual ‘friendships’, why limit yourself to just one girl? It makes no sense to me. I have about 4 or 5 girls I am casually dating at any time and it is wonderful. Now before you cast judgement, let me be clear. I am not leading them on. They know I am not exclusive with them. And guess what? They are all OK with it. I don’t rub it in their face, or make a big deal out of it. When we both are free, we hang out, watch movies, go to brunch, or even grab a Yankees game, oh ya and we sometimes fool around (which is a lot of fun for them also).
So let me ask you, why would you limit yourself to just one friend? I mean I also have a ton of guy friends. It makes no sense for guys to lock themselves down with one girl. Now, with that said, if you are ready to start a family, then getting an exclusive girlfriend and eventually a wife makes perfect sense. But until that time, having a girlfriend is just crazy talk.